My best friend L and her husband S drove up from Auckland yesterday afternoon to spend the night, and we ate far too much food and drank quite a bit of wine, and we caught up with their news and they caught up with ours.
This morning, after even more food (an Easter themed brekkie of hot-cross buns and scrambled eggs minus the pretty foil wrappers) we took Nephew T and Miss 8.7 to Ruakaka Beach, and after a swim L and I took a long walk along the beach and she talked about not getting pregnant after two years of trying and all the tests and how there was nothing physically wrong with either her or S and the specialist told her that they should just wait a little bit longer before IVF and how at the age of almost 40, she didn’t want to wait; she couldn’t afford to.
“Fi, I just wish people would stop saying to me, ‘oh, it will happen eventually, you just need to stop thinking about it’. But how do I do that? I just can’t!”
And I just listened, and hugged her when she started to cry, like a best friend should.
Easter Monday at Ruakaka Beach
13 Monday Apr 2009
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